Don’t let your dreams die. Pray on it 🙏
You never know what tomorrow holds. Continue working on making it happen: refocus, analyze the situation,... look for fixes, ask for help. In the meantime, remember that your parents love you. They gave you the money because they believe in you - giving up is how you let them down. more

What kind of company is it? And how are the books looking? Most people don’t make much their first year or 3 actually when they open a business! Don’t... get down on yourself! That’s completely normal and market hard so you can get your business name out there and then people will start calling you for work!  more

Have that talk - the one where you teach him about character, about what real strength is. Talk to him about the pitfalls of pride and the virtues of... humility. And if that doesn’t work, tell him it could be worse - you could be a politician.  more

Be consoled that as he matures his view of the entire set of circumstances will change and at some point he will boast that you were dedicated and... sacrificed much for his sake. Let him grow out of the mindlessness of the teenage scene. more

She is already seeing people who she thinks have more ambition than you, so she probably doesn't know who to choose

She asked you to stay back because she wanted your company and presence. Loneliness is a very tough thing to face and she didn't want to face the hurt... of loneliness. When emotions come, logic doesn't work - at that time, she didn't feel that you are losing out on your career goals/ambition. With your presence and support, she has moved up in her career with confidence. As we move up, we forget the support which we used to move forward. We think we did it on our own and hence she now looks down upon you. I feel a little bit of separation is good to feel the value. What you did was not just a mere sacrifice for a relationship - you also helped her grow in her own life and career, which is going beyond a relationship. It's time for her to pay back and help you build your career, even if it means staying away for some time. A relationship is run by Gratefulness and having value for each other - this happens when there is some space in between, alongwith being together & having common goals more

I simply refuse with clearly stating that I will NOT train the replacer. If I am losing my job anyway, it’s not my problem how it will run after me... hehe more

Ask this question directly to your boss.

Congratulate your boss on their award. Then ask a couple technical questions about how the project came together that only you would know how to... answer. How your boss responds will be revealing. more

This has happened to me severally. I think the way to go is to blow your trumpet as loud as you can. Do not wait for these people to recognize you... while you work quietly. In agreement with Adnan more

You are not

Not really, you are not.

Quietly prepare for the better. Apply like crazy, hire a recruiter, and confront management only when you secured the new position. If they weren't... upfront about letting you know their restructuring plans, they don't deserve to know yours.  more

Quietly prepare.

Jobs don't have security people expect. Take it and look for promotion at their competitor's company. Loyalty is earned

Sometimes you have to take the hit while working your way back up.

Take it and rent yourself an office to "go to work" if times get tough :D

You are always available to them anyways, right?

Can't make up the sacrifice, but you can communicate that your career is built around your love and care for family. What would your family's life... look like if you never had a job? more

Client's urgency doesn't necessarily become your urgency.

Ask them to imagine what would they do in your situation. Friends are important, but family is first. If their kids had an opportunity to experience... new people, different culture, and still keep the connection with old friends through social media, would they want that life for their family? Kids are smart, but hard to think long term until we're around 25-30.  more

They will make new friends, have amazing experiences, and will share them with their old friends through social media.

Clearly you were. Walk into your new role with confidence, all our paths and timing are different.

You may have hidden potential they observed in you for them to have given you the position, if you did not reject the position when given to you, the... best thing is to showcase your potential and do the needful, everything that is worth doing is worth doing well more

That's ridiculous. Accept and confront the facts and let your wife know your status.

just tell her, and earn her trust back again

No.

I think u have to start looking for ur future cos being in ur brothers company doesn't mean that it belongs to u and know that it is not inheritance... that u look forward to get your share so think deeply and move on more

Working with spouses could bring in unhealthy decisions/ conflict of interest.

Some organization won't even allow couple to work in the same company. Its standard HR practice. You need to be able to sit your wife down and draw... the line between office responsibilities and home expectation  more

Let the interview board decide depending on your CV and experience

Hello

No. Live your dreams, nothing you learned is wasted.

Make yourself happy your parents will get over it it's your life I sent my son to school for art he come out and because a police I was upset at first... but I got over it and told do what makes him happy 😊 your parents will get over it and be happy for you 😊  more

Give him 3 more months after that he has to do what he has to do.

When you help your family or someone you care about you need to afford paying down finance for these individuals to live. If you done have an incoming... income. Then you are irresponsible. First find a job. If you have the skills there will be plenty of jobs with the skillsyou have. If not you need a career representative and a representative for a job board program online, work from home or in-person such as CareerSource, National Staffing Agency and/or Resource Employment Solutions. Make sure you all required document including your resume, cover letter diplomas from high school, undergraduate school or graduate school with as well as your passport and other ids. more

Your thoughts are right, your wife is an assistance, if you have a plan and you've shared with her you've to know at 1st she will look for what amount... you have. You are the pillar of the family. Changing from a decision that could make you and your family happy for the rest of life to a short term enjoyment for days may make you regret closing a second opinion without giving a try more

Your first plan is always the best. If you bring in second thoughts, you will use your savings in the manner you will regret.

Now you understand why evidence is important especially in the workplace.
If you have strong evidences then do your best