Me personally I would think it was a trap.

Me personally I would think it was a trap.

You should take the job, opportunity knocks once.

As a man of God, I would encourage you to seek the Lord through fasting and prayer before making a decision. Allow God to reveal to you his will for... you and your family. I wouldn't lead on impulse or emotions for scripture teaches us that the heart is deceitful.  more

That’s a tough one. I believe keeping your word matters, but I also think you have to make career decisions based on the entire opportunity—not just... the paycheck.
Compensation, growth potential, stability, culture, work-life balance, and long-term goals all deserve consideration.
If the new opportunity is clearly the better move, I’d have an honest conversation with my current employer and handle the departure professionally.
Loyalty is important, but ultimately, you have to take responsibility for your own career path. more

Um yes… but pray

I think there’s room for both career fulfillment and a healthy relationship. If you genuinely love what you do, walking away from it entirely may... create a different kind of unhappiness. At the same time, when someone you care about feels like your career is getting all of your time and energy, that’s probably worth exploring together.

Maybe the answer isn’t necessarily a less demanding job, but finding better boundaries and being more intentional about protecting time for the relationship. A fulfilling career should be an important part of your life without having to become your entire life. more

Seems like you’re being forced to confront some issues, that can be tough. Take some time to introspect and to think about what you’re being asked to... confront both in your relationship and your work. Once you’ve give it some thought, enough to understand your own needs and those of your partner, set aside some time, maybe over a nice dinner, to talk with your partner. We all have feelings and we all want to feel seen and heard. It’s important that you both have that opportunity. I’m sure there’s a compromise somewhere.

Perhaps the most important thing, is to think of this not as problem, but as an opportunity. Sometimes issues like these can help deepen the bond in relationships, and you might find that it helps you grow as an individual.  more

I believe not to sign a contract some contract they pay a month and you don't want that but don't sign a contract they need to provide your place to... stay and provide your food and your ride to work  more

Thats normal in corporate jobs. It comes with the territory.

Yes it's true

Pretty good 👍😊

Just accept the verdict and move on, otherwise you fight a losing battle using the meagre resources you have saved. Be forward- looking

If you did something 'wrong', it wouldn't seem to help that other people are also doing it. (If you get a speeding ticket, you can't get out of it... because other people are speeding.) More context is needed. more

That was very selfish of you. However, feeling guilt implies perhaps you were partially oblivious of the implication of what your actions. This is a... good sign. Remember not to do it again because actions have consequences and sometimes the implication may come back to bit you. Just be glad that he has not found you out.

For peace of mind, apologize and try to make amends for a clean conscious. more

Maybe you thought it was for the good of the project. It is just a project, even if is an important one. Your coworker might have personal reasons to... do so, and it is not a sin to look for other opportunities, in fact is a smart thing to do. Forgive yourself but don’t do this again, that’s out of your line. I hope your coworker gets the job.  more

I don't find any problem in responding to such questions. You don't have to pre-judge. Just respond and allow fate to take it's corse

You played your cards right. You don't have to cheat anyone at their game to beat them. The question was superfluous and moreover needless.

Just get to work, do your job get paid , go home ! Simple.... Don't get involved in things that wont pay your bills at the end of the day

Report what? And what outcome do you intend to achieve? Those are grown adults. Also, the worst thing you can do is break the trust by discussing that... with someone else. Just don't
Keep it to yourself. more

You own yourself and servitude has no place in your life. Your honest living is all the honesty you need to confide in you and only you.

You may need to quit the job if the policy says you can't do another job, But if not you don't have to feel guilty just ensure you are not using the... time for the main job to do the other one more

The last thing you want is to get laid off quickly. I personally did my best to avoid companies with bad reputations. Money while great should not... always be the determining factor. Always think about what is best for your family and not just you.  more

If you can afford to wait for a better offer, then wait. If not - then take it and consider that you are still very much in the market and enjoy the... higher income while you have it. more

How did u know the other candidates percentage rate?

Further to.my suggestion above, do not compare yourself and your ability to that of others. Have confidence in your ability and try to acquire new,... latest skills, update your knowledge in your field of expertise. You can definitely succeed in life ✨️  more

You should have a trusted head hunter who moves you to a better job about every 3 years

It's VERY important and we're all strzngled with that and sometimes taking a chance can be good 👍

The new company is KSB

PRAYING WILL NOT HELP> DO some research an dif the ne wcompany is a competitor then turn it down.

I guess you didn't find out directly from your friend and that's why you feel betrayed. It's normal, you can address it with your friend and choose to... forgive, also you can re negotiate with your company based on your performance too more

Not your friend but your company betrayal! Your friend has nothing to do with that as they negotiate earlier maybe higher than you did! Since it's... ALMOST and not same work, maybe they were hired on bigger terms though your works coincide a bit! Keep doing good! more

Make sure you resign before you start, it’s very important.

You are doing nothing wrong. If you get a better offer, please move ahead. your current employer wouldn't think twice if they decide to terminate your... employment. more

I agree with Bello Ibrahim Yusuf: ask your wife specifically what is making her uncomfortable. Requesting a transfer is an option, but trust me, no... job change will make an insecure partner feel secure.

Women make up a huge portion of today's workforce, and working in diverse teams is standard practice. Quitting won't solve anything—you'll end up working with women at your next job, too. Unless she expects you to stay home while she works (and she avoids male coworkers herself), running from the situation isn't realistic. There is Counciling more

Women know how women move. The fact that your wife can see it and you don't work together already speaks volumes.