• Definitely, yes.
    Circumstances have pitted you against each other, and that would only change if one of you backs out. But there would still be... resentment whether you both admit it to yourselves or not. It's not impossible for the friendship to survive, but in my opinion it's doubtful
    Good luck?
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  • Give him 3 more months after that he has to do what he has to do.

  • When you help your family or someone you care about you need to afford paying down finance for these individuals to live. If you done have an incoming... income. Then you are irresponsible. First find a job. If you have the skills there will be plenty of jobs with the skillsyou have. If not you need a career representative and a representative for a job board program online, work from home or in-person such as CareerSource, National Staffing Agency and/or Resource Employment Solutions. Make sure you all required document including your resume, cover letter diplomas from high school, undergraduate school or graduate school with as well as your passport and other ids. more

  • Respectfully, she is not your mother. You finally get to do what you want in life and you have to stay home to take care of HIS mother. He is being... selfish to ask you. Take your job and work things out with him as it comes up. I know it sounds bad but from what I can gather, men make decisions like that often and just expect the women to follow along and to be okay with whatever they decide in the name of manhood. Sure, we will complain but in their world, we'll get over it. Think of it like this, it's better to go get the job you want and see if it's really your dream because this is something you need to do for you; or you can be miserable doing a job that you are not going to get paid for and since it's expected of you to take care of his mother, you probably will get a half hearted thanks every now and then. Eventually, the way your marriage sounds, your husband's constant expectation of you to do the giving up of stuff is going to lead to resentment. Take the job and be happy.  more

  • I believe in this case scenario of your life you need a remote job as marriage is a commitment. You need him to let you work from home. Agreeing if... you get enough income to travel and help yourself as well as pay for housing bills and other bills for the family. You can work anywhere and whenever. Trying to reach out for advice from CareerSource or Career USA job boards. You can ask advice for job opportunities from contacting Career USA. more

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  • Take the current job offer and build experiences as you grow your career. The most important thing is to get back into the work spaces.

  • Hey Nicole, awesome i salute for honouring your family, as for work take time off and pray Jesus will direct your path. Business is also a good place... to look into. more

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  • Your thoughts are right, your wife is an assistance, if you have a plan and you've shared with her you've to know at 1st she will look for what amount... you have. You are the pillar of the family. Changing from a decision that could make you and your family happy for the rest of life to a short term enjoyment for days may make you regret closing a second opinion without giving a try more

  • Your first plan is always the best. If you bring in second thoughts, you will use your savings in the manner you will regret.

  • Now you understand why evidence is important especially in the workplace.
    If you have strong evidences then do your best

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  • Kindly what matters most is working for your salary not where you are and remotely working is good the transportation that could have been taking your... finances, those finances can be used to to invest either in insurance packages  more

  • Work remotely off site possibly. I'm on GA and we have day places where remote workers work in a single place as " remote workers" as needed. So... you're not in " the office on site" but you're working remotely with the freedom of working from home"  more

  • I think u have to start looking for ur future cos being in ur brothers company doesn't mean that it belongs to u and know that it is not inheritance... that u look forward to get your share so think deeply and move on more

  • I think u have to start looking for ur future cos being in ur brothers company doesn't mean that it belongs to u and know that it is not inheritance... that u look forward to get your share so think deeply and move on more

  • While you have been reassured to finish long term projects, do not bury your head in the sandy knowingly that there is recruitment going on in the... background for your position. Be alert so that it does not come as a shock. more

  • Okay the issue was a business with the client which is very important since the family itself needs more resources like money
    Clients should be be... highly respected
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  • , It's normal, not all the time you give to your family. But responsibility comes from your client to feed them. Always remember that responsibility... is beyond family  more

  • Confront the manager, not draw comparison but to justify your worth. Explain why you should be considered for higher remuneration based on your skills... and expertise. more

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  • just tell her, and earn her trust back again

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  • Confiding in your spouse the moment something happens is the best way. Do not wait longer and pretend because that's what destroys relationships. If... your wife truly loves you, it will not be a problem to understand your situation. Unless, she doesn't really love you, then you have another problem at hand. more

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  • You may have hidden potential they observed in you for them to have given you the position, if you did not reject the position when given to you, the... best thing is to showcase your potential and do the needful, everything that is worth doing is worth doing well more

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  • As a parent there a certain thing you should not do in the presence of children or your wife, if you do this from home, find a different place to be... going every morning and return in the evening it will help. more

  • My husband is a truck driver he is 20 years older than me and we've been together for 5 years now and I have two kids he has two kids around the same... age 10 13 11 2 and I'm going to stay at home mom I go to college and he works and we don't have a connection it's not there are communication is not there when it comes to are relationship my feelings don't matter but he wants me to care about he's he always says it's tough love I don't socialize, go out ,or have friends I'm 30 years old go to law school and battling health issues I don't know what to do  more

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  • In life we always have have something called opportunity cost, to get something bigger you have to forgo another, just find ways of balancing work and... family, you can ask for leave at work and spend time with family or organise special dinners with family and intentionally switch off your phones so you have no disruptions more

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  • Define boundaries for your self at work, but surely life with no money is stress itself,

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  • Do not quit your job but keep applying for better opportunities because its easy to get another job when you have one already than having none.

  • Rewrite your CV and include the 4 years experience gained showing all the tasks and improvement in yourself, then look for a higher paying job.

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  • Regardless ofvhow unfairly you feel you were treated, do not quit that job unless you have got another one. If possible ask for leave and go to a... remote place mostly your village, you will come back refreshed. more

  • Best time to look is when you have a job. If you firmly believe that the company is unfair, then try to find another position. Do not quit until you... have lined up a job and make sure the next company is more to your liking. Get your answers ready as to why you want to change. Good luck. more

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  • You can rebuild your career but itbmight not be from the place where your value is questioned.
    You can use the available resources to get to where you... want to be. more

  • Resigning is not the solution, explain yourself to them in a good way what happened, was it's a request from you that you are going. If it's not then... that is not good but you can still ask for forgiveness from your boss in a good faith. more