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  • I'm excited about the opportunity and willing to relocate. However, after reviewing the cost of living in the new location, I'm concerned that the... proposed salary adjustment won't fully cover the increased expenses. Is there flexibility to revisit the compensation package or provide relocation support so the move is financially sustainable? more

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  • 1: never leave a job without having another one lined up. 2: See a marriage counselor. There is a lack of trust, maturity or something going on.

  • Having a work (wife) spouse is not the same as having an affair! So which was it?
    To leave a position based on accusations from home sounds ... immature. And what happens when she makes the same accusations at your next job? Before you take another position, have an honest conversation with your wife. If her accusations are justified, Do Better. Explain how the accusations created a problem in your work life balance. Which resulted in negatively affecting the family's financial health. Did you leave the last job on good terms? Can you return? Or did you tell everyone why you were leaving? The latter would make it hard to get good references. You should both work on the plan forward. more

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  • All the great achievements in life came out through adverse circumstances only. Great things won't be achieved easily and easily achievable ones will... not be great also. Be willing to renounce for the well being of others , then you will be mentally upright. Avoid selfishness. more

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  • First, thank you for opening up. It takes courage to admit when you're struggling.

    From what you've shared, I don't think you've lost your... potential—you've simply encountered circumstances that have delayed your dreams. The fact that you earned admission to study abroad speaks volumes about your ability. Don't let financial limitations convince you that your future has ended.

    Being the firstborn comes with immense pressure, but remember that you don't have to solve every problem at once. Take one step at a time. Continue applying for opportunities, scholarships, and jobs, and don't hesitate to reach out to former lecturers, mentors, and professional networks. Many breakthroughs come through persistence and the right connections.

    Most importantly, when you say you're "tired of life," please don't keep those feelings to yourself. Talk to someone you trust—a family member, close friend, pastor, mentor, or counsellor. Seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

    Your current si
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  • In Sports age is a factor, apart from that field, age does not apply . Individual ability and brilliance only will matter.

  • Yes, NGOs

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  • You definitely don't have what it takes to be promoted. Have the qualifications and be promoted those positions.

  • That’s definitely something worth paying attention to. When companies consistently look outside instead of developing the people they already have, it... can leave talented employees feeling overlooked and wondering what their next move should be.

    You or someone you know may be looking for a different path, more flexibility, or an opportunity to build something alongside their current career.

    I’m always open to connecting with people who are exploring their options and having a conversation to see what might be a good fit.
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  • You should not go back because they dump you when you least expect

  • A job is much more than about the pay you receive. Did you like your prior position? Did you like the people you worked with? Do you like your... current job better? Have the financials in the old company changed where maybe you did not get a raise because they could not afford it and now they can? How will your decision look on your resume when you look for your next job? How will you explain leaving, working elsewhere for a few months, then returning to your old company??? more

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  • Sincerely working is for your own satisfaction and growth. Do not give much importance to open appreciation. Some managers appreciate openly but may... spoil your reports  more

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  • Yes, but adopting AI should make output per employee increase. Employees become more valuable if their output continues to increase. Otherwise, if... you owned the company, how willing would you be to keep increasing wages with no commensurate increase in output? Will you pay more for the same work? more

  • You're not wrong. The promise is efficiency; the reality is that AI just raises the baseline. Instead of working less, you're just expected to produce... more—same hours, higher targets, plus the added work of reviewing AI output. It's not liberation; it's acceleration. The treadmill just got faster.

    What everyone should be worried about is what's coming next. AGI.
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  • That's a hard one to answer without additional information. What is the company size? Number of employees? What industry? Maybe the company has... specific plans for those profits; shareholder dividends, new facilities for expansion, R&D expenses, new products, expand into new markets or maybe an acquisition? They may be right in responding the way they did.
    Did you lay out the specific reasons you deserve a raise? What additional value did you bring to your role? (savings generated, new streamlined processes implemented, new ideas of yours they adopted).
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  • Is the Digital Executive Assistant job location the same as the interview location? If it is, and it is an inconvenience to drive for the interview,... why are you interviewing in the first place?
    If you are too put out to drive for the interview, how badly do you really want this job opportunity? That is the question I would ask if I were the interviewer!
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  • HOW WILL YOU GO TO WORK FROM SAME PLACE IF YOU'RE EMPLOYED?BEFORE LEAVING, THERE'S NO HARM POLITELY REQUESTING FOR A VIRTUAL INTERVIEW. THE WORLD IS... NOW A GLOBAL VILLAGE. IF YOUR REQUEST IS TURNED DOWN, PLEASE, LEAVE IT. MEANWHILE, REMEMBER THAT THE EMPLOYER MIGHT CONSIDER NOT GIVING A JOB OFFER BECAUSE OF YOUR REASON.🙏🏽 more

  • That’s definitely a tough decision because compensation is important, but so is having the time and flexibility to enjoy the life you’re working to... build.

    A bigger paycheck can solve some problems, but it’s worth looking at the bigger picture: your goals, your family, your health, and whether the opportunity aligns with the lifestyle you want long term.

    Sometimes situations like this lead people to explore additional options that give them more flexibility and control over their income.

    You or someone you know may be looking for ways to create another income stream alongside their career. I’m always open to connecting, sharing what I do, and having a conversation to see if it could be a good fit.
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  • Money is the last reason you should take a job. The work you do, the people you work with, work/life balance, they all mean more than $$$.

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  • Do not leave until u find another one. times are haed now, its going to be a while b4 it gets better. Funds are needed.

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  • Treat the job well as long as you're earning,here I'm unemployed,I'm suffering I did Diploma in agricultural extension,I have been attending... interviews but no call ,I passed well ,but no call ,I'm suffering but I'm now working as casual labour
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Jobscrolling: When Job Hunting Becomes an Addiction


You open LinkedIn or a job site "just to look." An hour later, you've scrolled through thirty job posts, updated your resume, and started comparing your salary to other people's offers. Sound familiar? This isn't just checking the market. It's called jobscrolling - a modern version of doomscrolling, where browsing job ads turns into a habit, almost like scrolling Instagram. Except instead of likes... and cat videos, you get job titles, salaries, and the nagging feeling that "somewhere out there, it's better."

Today's job market keeps us in a constant state of mild anxiety. Algorithms send personal recommendations. Notifications pop up even at night. One click and you're already a candidate. Job hunting used to be an event - you quit, updated your resume, went to a few interviews. Now it's background noise. Constant. And for many people, it quietly turns into an addiction.

Why We Can't Stop

There's a real reason behind this. Modern work often feels unstable. Layoffs in tech, the rise of AI, economic uncertainty - all of this creates fertile ground for anxiety. People aren't necessarily unhappy in their jobs. Many even like what they do. But the thought "what if?" won't go away. What if something better shows up? What if my skills aren't competitive anymore? What if I miss my chance?

Jobscrolling works like a classic addiction loop. Every new job post is a small hit of dopamine. "Wow, remote work plus a 30% raise." Your heart speeds up. You feel in control - even if you have no real plans to change anything. It's not about taking action. It's about staying in a constant state of readiness.

Psychologists compare it to doomscrolling. Except instead of bad news, you're scrolling through perfect career stories. Someone joined a startup and became CTO within a year. Some company offers amazing perks and culture. And you sit there comparing yourself. Comparison poisons your ability to enjoy your own life.

This is especially risky for people who already have a job. Checking listings every evening after work doesn't just steal your time - it drains your emotional energy. Instead of resting, you're mentally comparing yourself to others. Instead of focusing on your current tasks, you're imagining yourself somewhere else. Slowly, your current job starts to feel less valuable, even if everything is objectively fine.

The Effects We Don't Notice Right Away

The worst part is that jobscrolling works quietly. Unlike burnout, there's no clear line you cross. You're not lying in bed crying. You're just "checking the market." Fifteen minutes. Then twenty more. Then you update your LinkedIn profile, just in case someone reaches out.

Many people apply to jobs in bulk without even reading the full description. Quantity over quality. This creates an illusion of progress, but it often leads to disappointment - interviews that go nowhere, a constant feeling of being "in process" while actually standing still.

There's another side to this too. Endless scrolling increases your sense of uncertainty. The market starts to feel huge and chaotic. There's always someone younger, more skilled, willing to work for less. This creates a paradox: the more you search, the less confident you feel. The addiction feeds on that very anxiety.

People in fast-moving fields - tech, marketing, creative work - are especially vulnerable. In these industries, career growth always felt constant. When that growth slows down, scrolling becomes a way to cope with inner tension. Instead of investing in your current job or resting, you pour your energy into an imagined "better future."

How to Tell Healthy Checking from Addiction

Not everyone who looks at job listings has a problem. There's a healthy interest in the market. There's smart career planning. The problem starts when the process loses its purpose.

Signs to watch for:

* You open job sites automatically, like checking a news feed.

* After scrolling, you feel anxious or unsatisfied - not inspired.

* Your actual work suffers because you keep comparing.

* You hide the habit because "it's normal, right?"

Here's the key point: jobscrolling addiction isn't about laziness or lacking ambition. It's about how today's digital economy hijacks our basic needs - the need for security, recognition, and control over the future. Platforms profit from our attention, and we pay with our peace of mind.

What to Do About It

Quitting job-checking completely isn't realistic - and it's not even helpful. But you can change your relationship with it.

First, set clear limits. For example, one deep search session per week. The rest of the time, use blockers or a simple ritual: close the tab and go for a walk. Second, bring your focus back to what you can control right now - building skills, working on projects, talking to your manager about growth. When you have concrete steps to take, you feel less need to escape into endless scrolling.

And most important: ask yourself honestly what you're really looking for in these job posts. Money? Status? An escape from routine? Understanding this often relieves a lot of the tension. Many people aren't actually searching for a new job - they're searching for the feeling that life can still get better.

Jobscrolling is a symptom of our times - a time when careers stopped being a straight path and became an endless field of choices. We're all a little addicted to this uncertainty. But awareness is exactly where the opportunity lies. Not fighting the urge to check job listings, but learning to see them for what they are - not an illusion of a better life, just a tool.

When was the last time you closed LinkedIn and felt calm instead of slightly annoyed? That's probably where the real answer is hiding. Not in the next job post - in the ability to be where you are, at least sometimes. Without comparing. Without "what if." Just with clarity.
 
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  • That’s a tough decision because a counteroffer can feel validating, but it’s important to look beyond just the number. Sometimes the reasons someone... starts looking for a change—growth, flexibility, culture, recognition, or new opportunities—are still there even after the salary increases.

    I think it’s worth asking: “What made me start looking in the first place, and has that actually changed?”

    A lot of people are realizing they don’t want to rely on just one source of income or one employer for their financial future.

    You or someone you know may be looking for ways to create additional options alongside their current career. I’m always open to connecting, sharing what I do, and having a conversation to see if it could be a good fit.

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  • A tough call. My personal preference is to have a conversation with my boss that goes like this: "I will never come to you asking for a raise. I... believe it is your responsibility to make sure I am fairly and competitively paid. This way I do not have to listen to all the headhunter calls and worry if I am paid appropriately for my contributions to the company." Now all the pressure is on them, not you.
    In this case, I would respond like this: "If I am now worth $X, why was I not worth $X yesterday?" The answer you receive will speak volumes and guide you in your next move; stay or go.
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  • That’s a tough place to be in. When you consistently go above and beyond, sometimes people start seeing the extra effort as the expectation instead of... recognizing it as something you’re choosing to give.

    Resetting expectations often starts with having honest conversations, setting healthy boundaries, and making sure your time and effort are being valued.

    A lot of people eventually start asking themselves how they can create more balance, flexibility, and options beyond just working more hours.

    You or someone you know may be looking for a way to build additional income or create more control over their schedule. I’m always open to connecting, sharing what I do, and having a conversation to see if it could be a good fit.

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  • That’s a great question. Compensation is an important part of any career conversation, but your current salary doesn’t always reflect your true value... or what you could be earning in the future.

    Many people are starting to look beyond just their paycheck and explore ways to create additional opportunities, increase their financial flexibility, and have more control over their income.

    You or someone you know may be looking for another path or a way to build something alongside their current career. I’m always open to connecting, sharing what I do, and having a conversation to see if it could be a good fit.
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  • It is a good practice for the recruiter to ask for pay slip of the interviewee to avoid new employees from premature resignations as a result of... dissatisfaction emanating from poor conditions.  more

  • That’s a tough conversation to have. A stable job is valuable, but feeling appreciated, recognized, and having opportunities to grow are important... parts of a fulfilling career too.

    Sometimes moments like this cause people to start exploring what other options are available—whether that’s a new career path, a side opportunity, or simply creating another source of income.

    You or someone you know may be looking for more flexibility and room to grow. I’m always open to connecting, sharing what I do, and having a conversation to see if it could be a good fit.
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  • How to raise up the salary and get the job?,if you haven't Job

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    HRM will always find fault with you jumping jobs. I faced similar scenerio in an interview where the senior HR critized my CV having worked for 3... companies in 4 years but the real question is are we supposed to miss opportunity that comes with more growth, more compensation but to just stick to the present role with less growth. more