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  • Work is probably way more fulfilling knowing you have a wife at home. If you choose work over your wife, life will get VERY LONELY, you wonโ€™t have... anyone to share your success with and work wonโ€™t be there when you get older. No one has ever been happy choosing work over family in the longterm, make time for her.  more

  • Let her go

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  • You need to weigh your reasons for increasing your hours with your family's. Is it to: build household resources, retirement funding, help with her... college fees, personal growth, promotion potential. There should definitely be a sit down with your husband  more

  • You can not work and manage a home at the same time he must look for a helper for you or you help each other

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  • 1. Document, but hold off on reporting.
    2. Continue to work but casually seek additional guidance, elsewhere to reinforce what your being told:
    3.... Report to your supervisor later if the problem persists.  more

  • think you focus on doing your assigned Job, in as much as it's not going to be easy because of the onboarding, give It some time. If it persis and of... course affecting doing your job independently, the expected goals, you can now see your suppvisor about it . more

  • Messy, much? The first thing you should've done was tell her you were interested in the position. Tell her the situation now. Maybe she didn't apply... for that particular position. But do not think she won't find out, even if you withdraw your application? It take 1 corporate event where someone from HR will remember your name and ask if you had previously applied. Don't put her in thst position.  more

  • You already sound like some who has been putting their own career first. Also why was all this done behind her back? You surely know what you were... doing.  more

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  • I was wondering if you have heard about the ongoing KFC grant?
    โ€Ž
    โ€Ž+ This new program was established by the kfc company for those who needs assistance... paying for bills, buying a home, starting their own business, goir. and retired people and disabled, I got 20,000 Delivered from them in more

  • But what do you mean by โ€œI hand Cvs left rightโ€ I apologize but what does that mean?

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  • Without love, the life is gloomy

  • You don't have to become a different person to become successful. You can grow professionally while still being a loving, patient, and supportive... husband. more

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  • Whether a girl friend or a wife, such situations arise in 2 career families. If your partner does not want you to go, you have to decide if you can be... happy if you stayed or would you be resentful toward your partner. It is good to listen to your inner self and then own the decision you make.
    Have you slacked off in your job. Is her complaint justified? If yes, do something about it. If no, you two may be beginning to drift apart. Don't get mad. Part company as friends. Resentment only burns you from inside and is not healthy.
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  • You dont need respond. Act!

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  • Allow your manager handle it.

  • If clients are affected, this mistake will surface one day. Department would look worse at that time than fixing the problem now.
    It is your manager's... reputation that is on the line. The coworker who made the mistake can document how the manager was informed. You are better off staying out of it. more

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  • Congratulations for the opportunity , take advantage of it, your father even will be proud of you, your good work and kind heart rewarded you... well. God bless you ๐Ÿ™.  more

  • I agree with your siblings. Is the opportunity close enough to come back on weekends. Is teleworking an option. You typed "helping care", can the... other caregivers take over your part?
    If able, Ask your dad for his opinion.
     more

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  • Tell your son that during the Second World War, some people ate leather shoes, and I was a cleaner, and I have now attained a PhD.

  • But you do work at an office, what you do at an office is another story.

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  • What's fine is dine. BUT in the future include others when you submit your work. The email description could be something like:
    Mr. Evans, I am... submitting my report for the XYZA project.
    In addition, I have included the XYZA team members in the distribution.

    We are all available if you have questions.
    OR
    Leave out a major part so that you can answer, when he cannot, during his me, me, presentation.
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  • Thatโ€™s just how the world runs, get used to it.
    The catch is, thereโ€™s a possibility that one time heโ€™ll be trapped in a position where heโ€™s unable to... explain your work, whenever you can, leave such baits there, thatโ€™s where you then get to come in. more

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  • You did nothing wrong but you would have expressed to your girl that you had a client and say sorry then give her something like a small gift you can... afford for celebration of her birthday. I some times miss celebrating my children's borth days and they are the ones to remind me but I explain and appologise to then, give a small gift I can afford and finally sing for them that song, happy birth day to you..

     more

  • Can't make up the sacrifice, but you can communicate that your career is built around your love and care for family. What would your family's life... look like if you never had a job? more

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  • The real question is, what do you bring to the table, 8 years is worth shit if they donโ€™t really see your exceptional value there.

  • The new coworker may have different skills or experience in a different area. But understand the salary you received is what you accepted. Your... coworker's salary is what he negotiated (accepted). Request a desk audit. Ask how you can get a raise/promotion.  more

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  • Unless the management is inhuman, which sometimes is the case, itโ€™s better to seek for permission first before handling emergencies than to apologize... later. If the management is inhuman, then I understand that what your coworker did was stupid. more

  • So, she is not saying she snuck out early! She says she left early and the coworker reported her. They could have said something due to her just not... being there. Anonymous please report back to this post and clarify if you told the supervisor or whoever was in charge that you were leaving early...Thanks! more

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  • I don't think your children are the one stopping you is your decision to make it happen. How older are the children before you can say that they are... one stopping you  more

  • I don't think your children are the one stopping you is your decision to make it happen. How older are the children before you can say that

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  • Your products matters a lot and also the location as well as the proper channels to connect to people who needs Ur products and services

  • It depends on what your business is, what it does, how youโ€™ve structured it, who your target customer is, what youโ€™re doing to reach that customer,... etc. Before you give up, make your operations and setup as lean as possible. Spend less so you can keep more, if you havenโ€™t already done this. Do a self audit to see if this is (or is still) viable. Someone already mentioned this but it is worth repeating. Most businesses donโ€™t really make money before year 4. If you love it, keep working to make it viable and reach the people that you know will benefit from it.  more

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  • My dear, God is faithful and so merciful. Take on the available opportunity and you are praying and believing
    God for a better one

  • My dear, God is faithful and so merciful. Take on the available opportunity and you are praying and believing
    God for a better one

  • I don't get it. The one replacing you doesn't have the know how that you possess? Someone is playing politics especially that the replacer without... being skilled as you are gets much more than you do. If I were you, I would negotiate without giving in to manipulative demands. At times the company and your bosses must understand your worth. Read the book "GETTING TO YES - NEGOTIATING AN AGREEMENT WITHOUT GIVING IN". more

  • I simply refuse with clearly stating that I will NOT train the replacer. If I am losing my job anyway, itโ€™s not my problem how it will run after me... hehe more