Ah, the good news is that you're both talking to each other. Tell her how you feel. Be honest and open and most of all caring. And. listen if you... do not understand something, ask if you need to.  more

A women is selfish being because once she starts earning more than her man she starts boasting and start behaving bad towards her man because in her... mind she’s no longer need you and also where she works there are men there that are same financial level as her. 80% of men can take girl from poor background and make her rich and a wife but 1% majority of women can do it but she will tell the whole world it’s because of her you’re what you’re today which is sad 😒. My advice is seat down and talk to your wife and let her the agreement was so and you taking care of your children by being so they don’t miss presence of a parent. I see a lot your comments oh find a home job which pays good uhmm do you think it’s easy and if the wife earning more why look for higher pay job instead of giving the remaining time left to your child. In this life there’s nothing I could ever buy time spend with your children and your management can easily replace you at your job. She just selfish and full of herself. more

It's better you keep your marriage, because you may loose your marriage and get much money but you will fail totally in life to get a good man who... will make you feel to be a real woman, and however in a reverse way that much money you will have won't bring that marital love and family peace in your heart, more

Your emotional exhaustion will eventually subside; you will enjoy your new responsibilities, and your career will be better for it. Hang in there.

Everything that happened on this world bad or good has its own reason, door A may close for you and life become an hazzard, but that does not mean... it's the end of the road,  more

I think that you should have first communicated your displeasure about the embarrassment before taking a drastic action of leaving the company... completely.
Learn from this and train your mind to improve on your emotional intelligence. You will be amazed the most difficult people are often the most lonely people. They vent off easily because they are injured and I am not excusing bad behaviours or a toxic work environment. However if you are thinking back I think you also think you may have overreacted. So please improve your skills for work but what keeps you valuable amongst people is not skills alone rather skill plus people relations. more

Cumulative not communities

Compare the peace you will attain in both work and make a choice and let your wife give you reasons why she is stoping from going back to your... previous job more

Your parents built a legacy for you with their sweat and sacrifice because they knew one day it will be yours. Why you want break your parents hearts.... I know it’s not easy thing but i believe you can manage both do not let get go bankrupt and lose everything. They loved you now it’s your turn to appreciate them back. more

The business paid for your life and now you want to ditch your parents and the business. That is so selfish. Please help your parents by hiring the... right people to keep the business going.  more

You made a decision leave before sharing with anybody ,the manager is worried you are working towards taking over his or her position even above the... position of manager , as you long as you were doing everything in line with the company rules more

It is always best to HAVE a job while you look for a new one.

Follow the company guidelines to safe you from making a decision without a back up.Some company feel one takes a leave they will make losses ,TAKE THE... LEAVE  more

Take your leave! Work/Life balance is essential to your wellbeing nto your employer.

Sometimes we may take wrong decisions but most of the times it turns out to be blessing in disguise. I suggest that you may start thinking,... positively, that whatever happens in life is good for you. You will have lost mental peace because of this approach. Good luck. God bless you. more

I am sorry for you but that is life. If you had known that you will finally break you would not have sacrificed your job but her instead. Dont give... up though. Keep fighting and God will open another door more

Like the other two has noted, your intensions are in the right place and I assume you took her concerns seriously. But I would also like to add that... this oppourtunity, if you forgo it for her and the kids, it doesn't mean others won't come or that there aren't better amd more accomodating others out there. more

It's true you had a good intention but once you have a wife and probably children, it's no longer about you all the time. The decisions you will... affect them directly or indirectly and, if you are not careful, you can frustrate them out of your life and that will definitely lead to regret. If you want to take a decision of this magnitude, please involve your wife, that's why you are partners. It will also save you from mistakes. more

Lucky that you're there with your career secured,some have passed your age but still volunteering in organisations in the guise of developing their... professionals...Give thanks to your creator  more

Lucky that you're there with your career secured,some have passed your age but still volunteering in organisations in the guise of developing their... professionals...Give thanks to your creator  more

The employer is trying you. It is provocation to find an argument to hurt you maybe or to promote you. It starts always like that. The signs are... always there since the beginning. Be clever and smart, wise enough not to fall in that trap. Keep on doing it for a while not to damage your carrier. Be patient while you are looking for a valid argument not to take the phone. Maybe after a while they will stop. It can be your promotion if this behavior is not to harm you. In everything let us be patient! more

Don't answer. Don't apologize.
Tell him you're not available outside of regular office hours, it's precious time with your family..and resting to... ensure you are rested so you can deliver good work during the day for him.
The right tone and self-confidence will be enough. more

Blessings dear🙏🏽🙏🏽💥

Eh it will be well with you my dear you never did wrong at all..just be confident and know that it is all going to work out for your good..

Stil struggli to fine the vender
Since 2012 untill now

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Why guess? You can have a conversation and understand what is expected of you. You can object and set some boundaries. You may want to think it... through beforehand. Hopefully you can find a happy medium between extra money and extra hours and disruption. Good luck. more

Approach is important in communication. It can destroy relationships that are highly valued. You might be correct that there should be a determination... of work time as well as family time. Remember circumstances are different. Some people exceed the expectation unconditionally in a working enviroment. Generally males are in a position to spend more time at work, and expect others to do the same. Inconsiderate managers never embrace time effect issues at work. But all this is coiled around effective communication skills , the manager should be aware that life transforms as we go along. Some people join organisation's in their youth but their status change with time which also affect conditions of service. more

I wonder whether there's an important question to explore before deciding whether to confront your manager or leave. What exactly changed after you... communicated your boundary, and have you had an opportunity to understand why? The timing may understandably raise concerns, but it doesn't necessarily establish the reason for your exclusion. Perhaps the starting point is a conversation about your continued involvement in the project, rather than an accusation of retaliation. The response you receive may provide useful insight into what decision to make next.  more

Looks like you're unhappy. Is it the job, the boss, anything else? If career development is your chosen field, how would you like to develop your own?...  more

Sit with him and take decision together consider the negative side and positive side ,don't be selfish because you are one

I think both careers should matter in a marriage. Since you've supported his career for years and now have an opportunity of your own, I believe you... both deserve a chance to discuss a solution that respects each person's goals. Have you considered exploring opportunities in the new location or remote work before making a final decision? I hope you find a solution that works for both of you. ❤️ more

No. Sounds like the boss is playing the old divide and conquer game. The only game you should be playing is doing your job and looking for... opportunities to move up the food chain! more

You might ask your boss what is more important to him/her: are you more impressed is I return a call @ 7pm or if my performance is exceeding... expectations? more

By saying you are at capacity but as soon as you're able to finish up when you can take on another project with sufficient assistance so that... everything gets done one time and properly it's not no it's you are at capacity because once you've done all that you can do you can't take on more because that becomes a bigger problem projects don't get done or they don't get done on time remind the manager that you want to continue doing excellent work but you can't if you take on more work then you can produce with excellence.  more