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The interview's on Zoom. Here's how to actually stand out.


Virtual meetings and job interviews are no longer the exception, but we're not all spiff and polished when presenting ourselves online.

This requires a skill set not naturally in many people's wheelhouse.

Nancy Ancowitz, a career strategist and author of the new book "Zoom to Success," has some coaching tips.

Here are edited excerpts of our recent conversation:

Kerry Hannon: Why did you write... this book right now?

Ancowitz: This is the book I wish I had to help me navigate the virtual world. There is so much that goes into all of this before we even open our mouths -- the lighting (two light sources from the front or sides for balanced, flattering light), the hair, the makeup, the camera, your background, what you are wearing, the tech checks. I show people ways to make it simpler and more accessible to bring your best face forward online.

What are the biggest challenges of virtual presentations?

Speaking to somebody 12 inches from their face, and where their face and your face are so big and filling up the whole space, is really tough for many people. And if you are presenting, looking at 20 or more of those faces in little boxes is truly abnormal.

Another big one is that you can't make real eye contact with anyone since you're looking into your tiny camera. Nobody knows where to look when they are speaking. Maybe you look at yourself. You get distracted by your hair out of place. Also, not everybody's blessed with a great voice, and your voice matters even more on Zoom and other virtual platforms because there's not as much of you to see and to experience. Finally, one of the hardest things, of course, is that you have to be your own tech person and when things go wrong, be calm and cool.

You need to carve out an hour ahead of time to get mentally grounded and ready.

A virtual presentation can create more jitters than in-person for many folks. What are some of the good techniques you can do?

My favorite technique is self-talk, or speaking to yourself in the second or third person. Instead of saying, 'I've got this,' say 'you've got this.' Reframe nerves as excitement. Think 'I feel most alive when I'm tackling things that are a little bit challenging.'

I remind myself to slow down and breathe deeply, which sharpens my focus and clears my head when things get bumpy. Start with a two-minute reset: Inhale for four counts, hold for four, and exhale for eight.

It's a mindset matter. Remember that you're not there to impress people. You're there to share something, to share information, to inspire, to educate, to persuade. But you're not there for their judgment. That's a super important way to manage jitters.
 
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I moved to the US from India. Here's how I landed a job at Microsoft after first misunderstanding the Big Tech hiring process.


He suggests tech hopefuls build a public presence and continually develop skills to stand out.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Rishab Jolly, a 37-year-old senior product manager at Microsoft, based in Redmond, Washington. Business Insider has verified Jolly's employment history with documentation. The following has been edited for length and clarity.

Before moving to the US... in 2015, I studied engineering and computer science in India, where I worked as both a software quality tester and an engineer.

I was always interested in the business side of technology, so I left my job in India to pursue an MBA at the University of Arizona. My goal was to gain business acumen to complement my engineering background. I saw firsthand how much innovation takes place in the US and how many opportunities exist to work on cutting-edge products, which inspired me to build my career here.

One of the most valuable parts of the MBA program was its partnerships with Big Tech companies. As part of the curriculum, representatives from Microsoft, Amazon, and Google brought projects to campus.

Students formed teams, worked on deliverables, and were graded by company representatives. In 2016, I was team lead on a Microsoft project, and we did an excellent job. That gave me a chance to network and to demonstrate my skills to an actual Microsoft product manager.

I applied to about 200 jobs, sending the same generic résumé without referrals. I received only three calls back and passed two interviews, but both offers were subsequently rescinded: one company considered my visa too risky without a STEM extension, and another cited budgetary reasons.

I needed to secure a job within 60-90 days after graduation, or I would be forced to return to India. I ran out of money, asked a friend if I could crash on their couch, and felt a constant sense of anxiety.

During that time, I stayed in touch with the Microsoft contact I'd met through my MBA project. When an opening came up, I asked if he would refer me.

He agreed, and I rewrote my résumé to match the specific role. The hiring manager liked my application, called me in, and I got a shot. That referral and tailoring my résumé made all the difference.

I was hired by Microsoft in July 2017 and started as a product manager. I became a senior product manager in 2021.

First, you have to get the interview, and second, you have to pass it. For the first step, referrals are critical. Big Tech companies receive tens of thousands of résumés every month. A referral can push yours to the top of the stack.

To prepare for interviews, I relied heavily on mock interviews. I reached out to peers who had been in the same boat and asked them to test me. They helped me refine my storytelling, practice answering metrics-driven questions, and pinpoint areas for improvement.

When I finally interviewed at Microsoft, the feedback I received was that my stories were authentic and clearly based on real experiences. That authenticity resonated far more than rehearsed answers pulled from the internet.

In today's tech world, showcasing your skills outside work or school, whether on LinkedIn, GitHub, or through personal projects, demonstrates passion and initiative.

I started posting more consistently on LinkedIn during the pandemic. I shared lessons from my career, thoughts on product management, and observations about the industry. I wasn't trying to "build a following," I just focused on topics that genuinely resonated with me.

Over time, those posts resonated with others, and a community naturally formed around them. The growth happened gradually and organically, simply because people connected with the ideas and conversations.

Recruiters notice when you go beyond the curriculum to learn new tools or contribute to open-source projects. In a fast-changing industry where AI and new technologies emerge every six months, demonstrating your ability to adapt and self-learn is as important as the content of your résumé.

While a small percentage of jobs may prefer an MBA, I know successful product managers who came from accounting, English literature, or completely different areas. Microsoft values diverse backgrounds because innovation thrives when teams bring fresh perspectives.

Even with this knowledge, I would still pursue an MBA because it was not just about academics; it was also about gaining practical experience. It provided me with exposure to new perspectives, helped me transition into product management, and connected me with mentors and peers who have shaped my career in meaningful ways.

I don't think an MBA is mandatory for everyone. It depends on your goals and whether you're looking for a career pivot, a network, or structured learning.

Visa restrictions, financial pressure, and cultural adjustments can make the experience stressful. I had moments when I felt defeated, but staying focused and working smart eventually brought everything together.

After over eight years at Microsoft, I plan to continue contributing to the technology and innovation ecosystem. I'm exploring the appropriate pathways that align with my career goals, but nothing is finalized at this time. My focus is on the work itself and continuing to grow professionally.

My advice to anyone following a similar path is straightforward: network strategically, prepare thoroughly, stay authentic, and continually build your skills and presence. Things may look uncertain now, but persistence and the right relationships can open doors you didn't think were possible.
 
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What if we broke up Australia's monopolies? | Alex White


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Australia has the most concentrated industries and markets, with the least competition of any developed country. This worsens inequality and hands exorbitant power to corporate executives and billionaires.

* Supermarkets: Coles and Woolworths are the most prominent examples, with a combined market share of over... 65 percent. This is significantly higher than in countries like the UK or the US.

* Airlines: The Australian airline market is dominated by Qantas and Virgin, which together control around 98 percent of domestic passenger traffic.

* Banking: The "big four" banks control the vast majority of the market, with the top two, Commbank and Westpac, controlling nearly half of all mortgage lending.

* Pharmacies: Just four companies control 50 percent of the market.

* Telecommunications: Telstra and Optus have a combined market share of over 80 percent.

* Mining: Massive multinational firms like BHP, Rio Tinto, and local billionaire owned firms like Hancock and Fortescue control substantial resource extraction in iron and gas.

* Media: Australia's print and broadcast media is the second most concentrated in the world, with News Corp, Nine Entertainment, Seven West Media and Australian Community Media controlling 84 percent of the market, and Google and Meta controlling 70 percent of the advertising market.

* Insurance: Just four companies, IAG, Suncorp, Allianz, and QBE, control 50 brands to make it seem like they don't control 75 percent of the market. Three companies, TAL, AIA, and Zurich, control 60 percent of the life insurance market.

* Port operations: Two companies, DP World and Toll Holdings, control basically all of the logistics operations at Australia's major ports.

* Share trading: The trading of shares in public companies is controlled by a for-profit company, ASX, which has an effective monopoly to set listing fees and other charges.

* Job hunting: If you want to advertise or search for a job, Seek controls 66 percent of the market, allowing it to increase fees for advertising.

* Property transactions: A single software company, Pexa, controls 80 percent of the property transactions (conveyancing) in Australia. Pexa is itself around 40 percent owned by another monopolist, Link Group, which has a near monopoly on the administrative software used by financial fund managers and superannuation funds.

Despite this -- actually, because of this -- Australia doesn't have laws that allow the Commonwealth government to break up monopolies.

Monopolies are undemocratic because they transform economic size into unaccountable political power. When corporations become massive, they cease to be just businesses and act as private governments, using their wealth to capture the state and override the public will. This creates a situation where a handful of wealthy executives make decisions that affect the entire society, like setting wages, prices, and investment strategies. The fifty brands of insurance owned by four companies create the illusion that we have free choice we can choose between Budget Direct and AAMI -- it's a mechanism of political paralysis. And they can use their size and power to block any meaningful democratic control over the economy.

The lack of competition and concentration of power allows monopolies to extract value and wealth through their sheer size or through financial engineering, rather than the genuine value of what they produced. When Coles increases its prices above inflation, that is monopolistic theft from your pocket.

They are morally corrosive because they steal the right to coordinate economic activity from ordinary people. The current legal system allows massive firms to coordinate production and prices (through mergers and internal management), yet laws in Australia (and globally) restricts collective action by workers or small producers as if it were illegal collusion. Industrial action, strikes, pickets and boycotts, are all highly restricted. The ability for small businesses or producers to coordinate is also similarly restricted. This turns workers and small companies into dependent servants of the monopolistic platforms and gatekeepers.

Economically, monopolies amplify the destructive internal logic of capitalism to pursue wealth for its own sake rather than for human need. Firms are driven by a blind compulsion to accumulate profit, which inevitably leads to inequality, unemployment, pauperisation, and environmental destruction. Monopolies are not the result of superior efficiency, but of a system designed by the monopolists to concentrate wealth. They relentlessly squeeze workers, consumers and suppliers to feed an endless cycle of accumulation that is remorselessly indifferent to actual social well-being and human needs.

Finally, monopolies are dangerous because they perpetuate the myth that the market is a "natural" force beyond our control. Dominant firms thrive on the ideology that their power is the natural, inevitable result of merit, technological progress or superior efficiency, rather than political decisions and power. However, markets are constructed by people and societies who create laws. Monopoly power is the result of specific laws that give special privileges and protections to massive corporations. Accepting monopolies as natural creates a sense of political helplessness, rather than the truth which is that we have agency to rewrite the rules and restructure the economy to serve the public interest.

Breaking up monopolies is a vital, highly effective and strategic transitional demand. It allows for a fundamental redistribution of economic and political power, and would give people and politics democratic agency over the economy. Reducing monopoly power would also enable new forms of collective action, especially in workplaces, but also in the broader economy.

A central argument for breaking up monopolies is that it challenges the capitalist monopoly on coordination. In practice, the legal right to coordinate production and set prices is concentrated in the hands of massive firms like Coles, Telstra, Microsoft, Amazon or Allianz. The two supermarkets for example have such enormous market power over its workforce, suppliers and logistics that they operate as a for-profit planned economy, no longer subject to meaningful market competition or democratic oversight.

Meanwhile, workers and small producers are atomised and heavily restricted from coordinating. Restrictions on unions and industrial action for example. Anti-collusion laws are almost entirely enforced against small or medium businesses rather than mega-corporations.

By breaking the vertical control of dominant firms, anti-monopoly reform opens the door for "horizontal collective action". This allows workers, gig workers, independent contractors, and small business owners to organise for genuine productive autonomy, while restricting coordination of massive capital holders.

Anti-monopoly laws help demonstrate that markets are structured by law and that the economy is a political construct. Neoliberalism likes to argue that market concentration and dominance is an inevitable outcome of the natural laws of capitalism -- literally "monopolies are good" and that legal reforms are either futile or actively anti-capitalist.

However, laws and societies literally make markets. There is nothing natural about them. Anti-monopoly laws help challenge the learned helplessness that underpins capitalist realism. It also breaks the "monopoly is good" ideology of the Chicago School that says that monopolies are evidence of success and are therefore moral.

It builds broad, anti-oligarchic coalitions that is practical and self-reinforcing. Although ultimately anti-monopoly laws don't fundamentally challenge the exploitation and expropriation inherent in capitalism, breaking up monopolies offers a practical way to construct a majoritarian coalition.

A strategy that unites workers' interest in autonomy with consumers' interest in fair prices and services through anti-monopoly improves material conditions for everyday people, while simultaneously reducing the real economic and political power of the monopolist oligarchs. Simply, the divide between the extractive power of corporate monopolies and everyone else is so large that there are shared material interests between workers and "normal" capitalists.

Anti-monopoly creates space for alternatives to for-profit corporations. In this way, it is a complement (not a substitute) to the other goals that the Left has, such as cooperatives and public, democratic ownership. By reducing the political and economic leverage of massive corporations, the primary blockers of other progressive reforms have less power. It is difficult to pass a wealth tax or land tax when a handful of billionaire monopolists decide to oppose it.

What about nationalisation? If the supermarket duopoly has already created a planned distribution system, why fragment them? What if we take them over and democratise them for public need? This is certainly the program that Chifley proposed in 1945 for the banks:

based on the conviction that the Government must accept responsibility for the economic condition of the nation ... the Government has decided to assume the powers which are necessary over banking policy to assist it in maintaining national economic health and prosperity.

At the top of this post, I noted that anti-monopoly is a highly effective and strategic transitional demand. As we saw with Chifley, there was an immediate and unprecedented reaction to oppose nationalisation. A similar dynamic occurred under Rudd when the mining industry opposed the most timid of super-profit taxes on the industry's massive windfall gains. Lacking a powerful, militant union movement and civil society to force the issue, the Australian state cannot simply choose to nationalise major corporations.

Ultimately, we must not advocate for breaking up monopolies because we love competition. Instead, we want to give real economic and political power to everyday people, to workers and to communities.

The choice is stark: we either break the monopolies, or we accept our status as their serfs.
 
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Beyond Lines of Code: Using AI to Understand How Engineers Actually Work


Beyond Lines of Code: Using AI to Understand How Engineers Actually Work

As an engineering leader, I spend a lot of time thinking about performance reviews and calibration. But here's the problem: the metrics we traditionally use tell us almost nothing about what actually matters.

Lines of code? Commit counts? Ticket velocity? These numbers are easy to measure, but they miss the real story --... how engineers collaborate, communicate, and contribute to team health.

So I built a tool and paired it with Claude Code to analyze 200 days of GitHub collaboration data. What I discovered completely changed how I approach performance reviews -- and more importantly, how I help engineers grow into better teammates, not just better coders.

Why Claude Code Matters for Engineering Leadership

Most people think Claude Code is just for engineers writing code faster. But I found it's one of the most powerful tools for engineering leadership.

Here's why: analyzing collaboration patterns manually would take days per engineer. Reading through hundreds of PR comments, categorizing communication styles, identifying patterns in code reviews -- it's time-consuming and subjective.

Claude Code + GitHub data does this in minutes, with objective insights I can act on immediately.

But here's what makes it truly valuable: I can compare collaboration styles across engineers and help each person develop their unique strengths while addressing blind spots. One engineer's question-heavy coaching style complements another's direct problem-solving approach. Understanding these patterns helps me build balanced teams and give targeted career development feedback.

The Workflow

It's surprisingly simple:

bash

# Extract GitHub data (reviews, PRs, comments)

gh-calibrate-reviews engineer-username my-org 200

# Ask Claude Code to analyze patterns

"Add sentiment analysis to report [filename]"

Within minutes, Claude Code generates:

- Communication style breakdown (question-heavy vs directive)

- Review focus areas with percentages

- Tone and psychological safety indicators

- Specific, actionable recommendations

This is data-driven leadership at scale.

What the Data Revealed: Collaboration Styles Matter

Here are the collaboration patterns I found -- patterns completely invisible in sprint reports. More importantly, these patterns showed me how different feedback styles complement each other and where each engineer could grow:

The Silent Approver Pattern

Reviewed complex, multi-file PRs but left zero written comments. Just silent approvals. Meanwhile, received detailed feedback on own work -- creating an asymmetric collaboration dynamic.

Growth opportunity: This engineer is technically strong but missing chances to mentor others and share knowledge. Career development conversation: "You're ready for senior level, but senior engineers are expected to raise the bar for the team through code reviews. Even 1-2 comments per PR would demonstrate that leadership."

The Question-Heavy Pattern

65% of review comments were questions without suggested solutions. "Is that expected?" "Do we need this?" "Why are we doing X?"

Growth opportunity: Excellent at fostering critical thinking, but can slow down junior engineers who need more guidance. Career development conversation: "Your Socratic approach is great for senior engineers, but consider balancing it with direct suggestions for newer team members. This will make you more effective as a technical lead."

The Direct Problem-Solver Pattern

35% of comments were improvement suggestions with specific code examples and alternatives. Highly actionable feedback.

Growth opportunity: Efficient and helpful, but rarely acknowledges what's done well. Career development conversation: "Your technical feedback is excellent. Adding positive reinforcement 15-20% of the time would improve team morale and make critical feedback even more effective."

The Description Quality Gap

Some engineers wrote 100% substantive PR descriptions (600+ characters on average). Others had 26% of PRs with no description at all -- forcing reviewers to read code blind.

Correlation discovered: Description quality directly predicted merge rates. Detailed descriptions → 86-97% merge rate. Missing descriptions → 53-74% merge rate.

Growth opportunity: This is a teachable skill that directly impacts collaboration efficiency. Career development conversation: "Your technical work is solid, but 26% of your PRs have no description. Reviewers spend extra time understanding context. Strong documentation skills are essential for senior roles -- let's work on this together."

The Infrastructure Specialist

40% of review focus on deployment and infrastructure concerns. Caught critical Terraform state issues, AWS configuration problems, and migration risks that others missed.

Growth opportunity: Deep expertise in one area is valuable, but breadth matters for career growth. Career development conversation: "Your infrastructure expertise is critical and protecting the team. To grow into a staff role, consider expanding review focus to include testing patterns and code architecture -- aim for 15% of reviews in these areas."

The PR Size Impact

Engineers with mostly small PRs (1-2 files): 86% merge rate

Engineers with large/XL PRs (6+ files): 53-74% merge rate

Growth opportunity: Breaking down work is a professional skill, not just a best practice. Career development conversation: "Your merge rate is 53% compared to team average of 86%. The pattern shows large PRs (6+ files). Let's work on decomposition skills -- this will accelerate your delivery and reduce review burden on teammates."

Response Rate Disparities

Response rates to feedback ranged from 10% to 68% across the team. High-quality responses when engaging, but frequency matters for team dynamics.

Growth opportunity: Being responsive is part of being a good teammate. Career development conversation: "Your responses are high-quality when you engage, but you're only responding to 10% of feedback. Reviewers are investing time in your work -- acknowledging their input builds trust and collaboration."

Comparing Styles: Building Balanced Teams

What became clear from the data: different collaboration styles complement each other.

The question-heavy engineer helps senior teammates think critically. The direct problem-solver unblocks junior engineers quickly. The infrastructure specialist catches production risks. The detailed documenter makes everyone's job easier.

The goal isn't to make everyone the same -- it's to help each engineer understand their natural style, recognize where it adds value, and develop skills to be effective with teammates who have different needs.

For example:

- Question-heavy reviewers can learn when to provide direct guidance

- Silent approvers can learn to leave even minimal feedback for knowledge sharing

- Direct problem-solvers can learn to balance suggestions with positive reinforcement

- Infrastructure specialists can learn to broaden their review focus for career growth

This is how you help engineers become senior engineers, tech leads, and staff engineers -- not just by improving their coding skills, but by developing their collaboration and communication skills.

From Vague to Specific

This data transformed my calibration conversations:

Before:

"I think you should engage more in code reviews."

After:

"Over 200 days, you approved 14 complex PRs without written comments, while receiving an average of 10 comments per PR on your own work. Adding just 1-2 comments per large PR would improve knowledge sharing and demonstrate thorough review. This is the kind of leadership we expect at the senior level -- let's work on developing this skill together."

Specific. Objective. Actionable. And tied to career growth.

Why This Matters

Code review quality isn't just about catching bugs. It affects:

- Team velocity (poor reviews → bugs → rework cycles)

- Knowledge sharing (silent approvals → silos and bottlenecks)

- Psychological safety (tone matters; harsh reviews → fear of feedback)

- Retention (recognition matters; data reveals hidden contributions)

- Onboarding (new engineers learn from review culture)

- Career progression (senior+ roles require collaboration excellence, not just technical excellence)

But most engineering leaders don't have time to manually analyze hundreds of comments per engineer. That's where AI becomes transformative.

The Real Value for Leadership

AI doesn't replace judgment -- it augments it with data.

I still bring context, relationships, and strategy to calibration. But now I have:

✓ Objective patterns to back up observations

✓ Specific examples to make feedback actionable

✓ Recognition for contributions traditional metrics miss

✓ Early warning signs about team health

✓ Career development insights tied to collaboration skills ✓ Data to show engineers how their style complements (or conflicts with) teammates

Example insights Claude Code surfaces:

- "40% of comments are questions without solutions -- great for fostering critical thinking with senior engineers, but consider adding direct guidance for junior teammates"

- "Limited positive reinforcement detected (4% acknowledgments) -- senior engineers who add specific praise create stronger team cultures"

- "Strong infrastructure expertise (39% of reviews) -- critical during migration and a clear strength. To reach staff level, consider broadening to architecture and testing patterns"

Getting Started

The toolkit is open source and takes about 5 minutes per engineer:

- Install GitHub CLI and Claude Code

- Run the data extraction script

- Ask Claude Code to analyze the patterns

- Get actionable insights for performance reviews and career development conversations

No manual analysis. No subjective guesswork. Just data-driven insights that help engineers grow.

The Bottom Line

GitHub contains a wealth of collaboration data that most engineering leaders never tap into. With AI tools like Claude Code, we can finally analyze it at scale.

As engineering leaders, we owe our teams more than gut feelings and velocity charts. We owe them data-driven feedback that helps them grow -- not just as coders, but as teammates, mentors, and future technical leaders.

The tools exist. The data is there. Let's use them.
 
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  • I totally get how frustrating this feels. I actually saw a story on Facebook about a recent grad who couldn’t get a job because he didn’t have... experience. Instead of waiting around, he started documenting his coding projects and skills online to stay relevant and fresh. When his current employer invited him to an interview, he even shared a write-up of how he solved a problem they gave him, and the interviewer was really impressed. He ended up landing a senior role because of it.

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Can Dating Apps Help You Land Your Next Job?


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In today's job market, submitting a résumé can feel like tossing a message into a digital void where it's instantly judged, and often rejected, by an algorithm that doesn't care about your personality, potential, or rent.

With... AI-powered hiring tools acting as bouncers at the club of employment, job seekers are getting creative. Very creative.

Some have decided that if networking is the only way in, they might as well swipe for it.

According to a new survey from ResumeBuilder.com, one in three people has used a dating app to help find a job.

Nearly one in ten said that was their main reason for being there. Romance? Optional. Referrals? Mandatory.

The strategy is surprisingly calculated. 66% of respondents said they searched for people working at companies they wanted to join, while 75% intentionally matched with users in roles they hoped to land themselves.

As ResumeBuilder's chief career advisor, Stacie Haller put it, networking is "the only way people are rising above the horror show that the job search is today."

And, awkwardly enough, it works. 88% of job-focused daters said they successfully made professional connections.

That often meant advice, mentorship, referrals, or interviews, but 37% went all the way and got a job offer.

In a truly modern twist, 38% also said the professional connection became physical, proving that sometimes you can have it all. The rise of AI in hiring is a big reason for this behavior.

Companies rely on automated résumé scanners to handle floods of applications driven by mass-apply culture on platforms like LinkedIn.

These systems are fast and cheap, but also notorious for bias and false negatives. Even highly qualified candidates can be rejected before a human ever sees their name.

That's where referrals come in, often the only reliable way to bypass the algorithm.

But networking favors people who already have connections, reinforcing inequality, a trend noted by Cornell professor John McCarthy of Cornell University.

For those without built-in networks, dating apps are becoming the workaround. While Tinder and Bumble are the most commonly used, some platforms lean into the crossover.

Raya lets users search by industry, and Grindr reports that roughly a quarter of its users network professionally. Love may be dead, but apparently, job leads are thriving.

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Ronil is a Computer Engineer by education and a consumer technology writer by choice. Over the course of his professional career, his work has appeared in reputable publications like MakeUseOf, TechJunkie, GreenBot, and many more. When not working, you'll find him at the gym breaking a new PR.
 
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CEO Scott Tannen asks this question to catch unprepared candidates: 7 cues that quietly tell employers you walked in casually - The Times of India


In a hiring market crowded with polished résumés and rehearsed answers, effort has become the real differentiator.That is the blunt message from Scott Tannen, founder and CEO of Boll & Branch, who has personally interviewed and hired hundreds across roles ranging from interns to C-suite executives. Speaking to CNBC, Tannen says he always begins interviews with the same, deceptively simple... question: What do you know about Boll & Branch?It is not a warm-up. It is a filter. "I think when people have not done their homework, that is the biggest red flag," Tannen has been quoted saying in the CNBC interview. "You don't have to know every answer, but you have to have done your homework," he added. Tannen does not expect encyclopaedic recall, but he does expect signs of effort -- time spent reading, understanding the business, and thinking about how the company works. "If they can't at least give me back what's on our Wikipedia page, we probably are not starting off on the best foot," he shared. What Tannen is really diagnosing here is not ignorance, but indifference. In an era when candidates have unlimited access to information, failing to learn even the basics about a prospective employer signals something deeper: A casual attitude towards opportunity. The question works because it collapses pretence. Confidence, charm and fluency cannot compensate for the absence of preparation. Within minutes, the employer knows whether a candidate has shown up curious, or merely hopeful.And this is where most interview advice quietly falls apart. Candidates obsess over answers -- how to explain weaknesses, how to negotiate salary, how to sound passionate -- but neglect the far more consequential mistake: Walking into a conversation without context. Employers are not testing memory; they are testing intent. Here are 7 ways you are inadvertently telling employers that you're not serious.Saying a company is "into tech," "does consulting," or "makes products" is not neutrality, it is a tell. It signals that the candidate has skimmed, not studied. When you cannot articulate what a company actually builds, sells, or stands for -- even in broad strokes -- you are telling the interviewer that this organisation could have been swapped with ten others. Employers hear that as a lack of intent, not a lack of information."I'm excited to learn." "I'm looking for growth." "I want to challenge myself."These lines are not wrong. They are just empty.Tannen's emphasis on preparation exposes how quickly employers now discount generic enthusiasm. Passion that is not anchored to the specific business, product, or role sounds rehearsed, not sincere. It tells the interviewer you prepared for interviews, not for this interview.Curiosity only counts when it has a direction.Many candidates can describe what they want to do. Fewer can explain why the role they are applying for exists inside the company.When asked about responsibilities, candidates often repeat the job description or talk about skills they hope to gain. What employers listen for instead is whether the candidate understands the problem the role is meant to solve. A failure to do so quietly signals surface-level preparation.Walking in without that understanding suggests you have not thought seriously about what you are signing up for.Lack of questions is not politeness. It is passivity.Equally revealing are questions that sound interchangeable: "What does success look like?" or "What is the culture like?" These are acceptable starting points, but when they are the only questions asked, they reveal a candidate who has not engaged deeply enough to go further.In the CNBC interview, Tannen adds that preparation is not limited to reading up about the company. It also means walking into the interview with questions of your own, along with confidence, enthusiasm for the role and a clear sense of what you hope to achieve by taking it.Tannen's insistence on questions underscores a shift: Employers now read questions as evidence of preparation. No questions -- or default ones -- signal that the candidate is waiting to be impressed rather than choosing deliberately.Candidates often frame interviews as extraction exercises: What they will learn, how they will grow, where this role might take them. When candidates speak only in terms of personal gain, they appear casual about contribution. Employers are not allergic to ambition. They are wary of asymmetry.Preparation shows up when a candidate has thought about reciprocity.Confidence without context is increasingly easy to spot.Candidates who speak fluently but inaccurately, or confidently but vaguely, trigger the very red flag Tannen describes. In an age of polished communication, confidence alone is no longer proof of readiness. Employers are looking for grounded assurance and confidence that rests on understanding. Charm cannot compensate for not knowing where you are.Perhaps the clearest cue of casualness is when an interview feels scripted. Candidates move mechanically from one answer to the next, rarely responding to the room, the interviewer, or the company's specifics.In his CNBC interview, Tanne shared the example of an intern who spoke about building her own brand. It stood out precisely because it was conversational, contextual and rooted in curiosity. She was not performing an interview; she was engaging with a business. 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  • Could you come in an hour earlier on the days that you need to leave early?

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    You are all right.
    In as much as the job is priority, career growth is also important.
    I had a similar situation, but I asked and... told him that I will not be going out for lunch on those two days to cover for the last hour, of which he agreed.
    So try that, who knows?
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Year-end wealth review: Are you earning more? Owning less? - Businessday NG


A few days ago, during our year-end review, my fifteen-year-old son asked me a question that made me pause and smile in quiet disbelief.

Not about what I earned this year.

Not about where I travelled or what I was building publicly.

He asked:

"What did you invest in this year? What do you own? And what continues to earn when you're not actively working?"

It was an honest question. A... leadership question. And I realised how confronting it would be for many women, even highly accomplished ones, to answer it without hesitation.

Because it forces a different kind of audit. One that moves beyond income and into structure. Beyond effort and into durability. Beyond how impressive our year looked and into what actually changed beneath the surface.

Many high-achieving women will end the year with strong résumés, full calendars, and enviable lifestyles, yet quietly feel more financially exposed than they did twelve months ago.

But earning well is not the same as building wealth. And for too many women, that distinction only becomes clear at year-end -- when the numbers don't quite match the effort.

I've had versions of this conversation repeatedly in recent weeks. Senior professionals. Founders. Women with strong personal brands and visible success. When the noise dies down and the year is reviewed honestly, a familiar pattern emerges: income flowed, but security didn't deepen. Activity was high, but ownership didn't grow. Visibility increased, yet financial resilience remained fragile.

This is not a personal failure. It is a structural one.

Increasingly, that structure is shaped by FOMO -- not the loud, obvious kind, but the quiet, respectable version. The pressure to keep up with lifestyles that signal success. To say yes to opportunities that look prestigious. To maintain visibility even when it is unpaid or poorly priced. Travel, events, generosity, aesthetics, and obligations are all justified as "part of the season", while ownership is deferred to later.

FOMO doesn't always look reckless. Sometimes it looks responsible, polished, and well-intentioned. But when left unexamined, it becomes one of the most efficient ways high-achieving women erode wealth while appearing to advance.

For decades, women have been encouraged to measure progress through earnings, titles, and lifestyle upgrades. We celebrate promotions, applaud expansion, and equate busyness with advancement. But we rarely ask the quieter, harder questions: What do you own? What are you building beyond income? What protects your choices when life shifts unexpectedly?

The uncomfortable truth is this: many women are earning well inside systems that leave them financially exposed.

Exposure shows up in different ways. It shows up when a woman realises her standard of living is not one she could sustain independently. When generosity outpaces structure. When visibility outpaces pricing and compensation. When obligations quietly begin to outrun assets. And when life events, such as illness, divorce, caregiving, and business shocks, reveal how thin the margin for error really is.

It also shows up at year-end, when the spreadsheet refuses to lie.

Year-end, when done properly, is not a financial summary.

It is a wealth review.

A year-end wealth review for high-achieving women

Before stepping into a new year, it is worth pausing for a different kind of audit. Not to judge yourself, but to orient yourself.

What did I earn this year -- and what did I own at the end of it?

How much of my income translated into assets, equity, or long-term positioning?

Structure & Durability

If my income paused, what would still protect my choices?

Do I have buffers - financial, legal, and structural - for life's inevitable shifts?

FOMO & Lifestyle Pressure

Where did spending decisions quietly follow momentum rather than intention?

What was justified as "part of the season" but delivered no lasting value?

Visibility vs Value

Where did my visibility increase without fair compensation or leverage?

Did recognition translate into ownership, equity, or strategic positioning?

Risk & Resilience

Did I make financial decisions from design or from pressure?

Am I positioned to stay in the wealth-building game, even after setbacks?

And the answers determine whether effort compounds -- or quietly dissipates.

One of the most persistent myths working against women's financial security is the belief that stability comes later -- after the next promotion, the next contract, the next season of growth. But wealth does not arrive automatically with success. It must be designed, protected, and stewarded deliberately. Without intention, higher income often funds higher exposure.

This is why so many high-achieving women feel uneasy even when they appear successful. They sense that something is missing. Not money, but structure. Not ambition, but insulation. Not drive, but durability.

These conversations are often avoided because they feel uncomfortable. Questioning financial arrangements is often framed as distrust. Preparation mistaken for pessimism. But preparedness is not negativity. It is dignity. It is the ability to choose without fear, to respond rather than react, and to remain steady when circumstances shift.

Every year that income is not translated into ownership, leverage, or long-term positioning is a year where effort dissipates instead of compounds. Every year that financial decisions are driven by pressure rather than design quietly increases exposure. And every year, women are celebrated for earning, but being taught to structure wealth is a missed opportunity -- not just personally, but generationally.

Which brings me back to my son's question.

If the next generation asked you what you invested in this year -- what you own and what earns beyond your daily effort -- would the answer make you proud? Or uneasy?

And information, used honestly, can become the beginning of a shift.

The year ahead will demand more clarity, not more hustle. More structure, not more strain. More ownership, not just more income. The women who recognise this early will not only protect themselves -- they will quietly redefine what success looks like for those watching behind them.

Wishing you an extraordinary year ahead -- not by default, but by design.
 
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